FrenemyShe Doesn't Really Like You Like That! - Meet Your Frenemy

"We all have them, that friend who is our "friend" yet secretly envies or even hates us on the inside. First it starts with a few sly remarks here and there "oh, you're going to wear THAT tonight?" Then escalates to "I really can't stand that bish, I just hang around her because she buys all the rounds at the bar". If you've found yourself in this predicament more times than not, you may need a refresher course on "Frenemies". Luckily for you, that's what I'm here for.."

Let's Start With The Basics

"Not Every Friend Is A "Frenemy">>>  Just because she may not agree with everything that you say, or call as much as you'd like, or even approve of everyone you date, that doesn't make her a potential Frenemy. In fact, it makes her human, and possibly the best friend you could ever have. A good friend will not allow you to make the same mistake twice....well, at least without trying to warn you first. A good friend doesn't have to your identical twin and she certainly shouldn't be the person you run to when you want to hear "Yes". A true friend should be the person you run to when you want to hear the truth. Beware of people who always tell you "yes"..they are potentially setting you up for failure. Frenemies want to see you fail. 

Who Are Your Frenemies?

Frenemies Want To Be The Closest To You>>>>  Do you have that new friend that you're not particularly close to but for some reason she wants to get extremely close to you? Does she randomly invite you out to dinner when you two only speak in passing? Beware, she may have motives! Anyone who wants to be insanely close to you after not showing any interest in you before is likely to be trying to dig up dirt on you. Digging up dirt is one the things that a true Frenemy lives for. Frenemies want to find any possible thing they can use against you later on in the future. Any information you give them is considered useful. If they can turn a positive into a negative, they absolutely will.

Identifying Your Frenemies

It Doesn't Take Much For A Frenemy To Turn On You >>>> If you get into a tiff with your friend for the first time and she uses that opportunity to drag you under the bus and throw dirt on your name, consider her a Frenemy. Frenemies aren't the type to mend broken relationships. Since they day they met you they've been waiting for you to mess up just so they can tell the world how awful you are. If you ever come across that one friend who is quick to cancel you out, she was never a true friend to begin with.

When Everything You Do Is Wrong, Maybe It's Not You >>>>If you have that friend who constantly thinks everything you do in life is wrong, maybe its not you. Sure you're a successful business woman but according to your Frenemy you should be home with your child more. Your house may be huge but your Frenemy thinks your car could use an upgrade. A Frenemy will find the brass lining on every cloud your silver lining once existed. Your best bet is to cut ties with them as soon as Frenemy warning signs have come to light.

New Music: Melanie Fiona – “Wrong Side of a Love Song”

For the third single from Melanie’s forthcoming sophomore album ‘The MF Life,’ the Toronto-born singer takes it back with Motown flavor. Over a bluesy guitar and dramatic string accompaniment, Melanie spins an emotional tale of love lost. But this time she’s not the one who’s been done wrong. It seems Melanie was too busy out being a lady player to pay her man any attention, and he dipped out.

A heartbreaker, most of my life
Suddenly all changed, the moment you left me and walked out my life
Tried to play cool, but instead I was playing myself
What ya gotta know about me, is that I’m dying in this lonely house
And I don’t wanna be without you
Cause I can hardly breathe without ya
‘This is how it feels to be the one that’s standing left behind’
How did I become the wrong side of a love song?

Melanie Fiona is known for killing a ballad, so get a body bag ready because she slayed this one.

Tell me what you think>>>>>>>>>>>

Find out what Wendy has to say about the age-old “angry black woman” stereotype.

From the moment Barack Obama started running for president, the media and some members of the public have tried to label Michelle Obama as an “angry black woman.”
New York Times reporter Jodi Kantor claims in her new book, “The Obamas,” that the First Lady is a strong force and source of conflict in the West Wing of the White House, which the First Lady disputed in a recent interview with Gayle King on “CBS This Morning.”

Chrissy revealed that she's 40 years oldIn this clip we also get a sneak peek into Olivia and Maino's short lived romance

Here's some bonus footage from Love & Hip Hop's episode 1. It seems like Somaya was right about them cutting the happy times out and leaving it on the cutting room floor because this puts a few things in perspective. This clip takes place and Emily's party and is full of talks of boob jobs, lesbian fantasies and anything else you can think of when mixing women and alcohol. I do kind of find it funny that Chrissy threatened to beat up Kimbella earlier on. I guess she was a tad irritated with her from the beginning.  Another tidbit is that Chrissy revealed that she's 40 years old which null & voids the shade Yandy tried to throw in Episode 8 where she "exposes" her age. I've gotta say Chrissy looks great for 40 and it also explains her anxiousness to get married.

In this clip we also get a sneak peek into Olivia and Maino's short lived romance. Pictures surfaced many moons ago of the two "making out" but Olivia dispelled the rumors saying those photos were very old. Earlier this week Maino took to his Twitter to make a few comments himself by saying  
-"Y does everybody think I date Olivia? Where the fuck they get that from? Don't she fuck wit a boy who plays Basketball overseas?". He added, "So wut? I kissed my CAT b4. Does that mean I had a thing for her too?"
check out the video in my video side bar!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Draya Michele as the newest young spokesperson for its Secret Kisses Lipstick and Lip Gloss line.

Secret Kisses is excited to announce the signing of reality star Draya Michele, as the newest young spokesperson for its Secret Kisses Lipstick and Lip Gloss line.  The exclusive line consists of 35 shades of lipsticks,  8 Lip Candy flavored glosses and 10 Lip Gemgloss colors.  Draya and Secret Kisses are set to promote the brand through a series of events and advertisements.

Draya says,  
“I make sure that I'm styled to the "T" when I step out of the house, paying very close attention to detail.

I wouldn't leave without my shoes or more importantly my smile...  Secret Kisses, dress up your lips. XO XO"

“There is no denying the fact that Draya Michele exudes the bold and exotic flavor embodied by Secret Kisses”, states Ronell “Big Gates” Levatte, founder and owner of Secret Kisses. “We are excited to welcome her to the family and know that she is going to be a dynamic representation of the brand”.

Draya Michele is best known for her modeling career and as the hot new face on VH1’s hit reality series ‘Basketball Wives LA’. Draya enthusiastically takes her new role as an opportunity to create an avenue to set new standards of true beauty; enhancing innovative looks that begin with the lips. She is no stranger to turning it up and taking any look from plain to fabulous in true diva fashion, making Draya the epitome of the Secret Kisses brand one that consists of completing any look through saucy sensual sophistication.

Founded in 2010,
Secret Kisses is a cosmetics company, based in Florida, currently specializing in lipstick and lip gloss. Their goal is to always provide products of excellent quality which are also affordable and expressive of a modern generation which embraces self- expression, diversity and non-conformity.

For more information about Secret Kisses please visit their
website: www.SecretKissesLipstick.com

Fame - Amber Rose featuring Wiz Khalifa

Amber Rose is now a recording artist. She has released her first single via Perez Hilton called Fame featuring Wiz Khalifa. I like it I'm lien I love it lol

Check it out: And tell me what you think?

LaLa Anthony (Motives) Cosmetics line...

Motives for La La will debut at World Conference in Miami next month and includes six different product categories -  lipsticks, lip shines, eyeshadows, blushes and shimmer, all in shades that compliment a woman of color. My dear  fashion doll La La has brought her own unique style to the Motives line and with names like Red Carpet, Dreamer, Off Broadway, and Backstage it’s the perfect blend of runway and everyday. We’re so excited to have you on board baby the debut in February will be fantastic!
 "Having my name on a cosmetics line has always been a dream, one I’m excited to share. Every girl always tries to find that perfect color or shade that suits their personality, and now she can do it easily and affordable.”  - La La Anthony on Motives Cosmetics"

You can find out all the dirt if you hang around Twitter enough.

You can find out all the dirt if you hang around Twitter enough. Next up we have video models Kimbella and former Kat Stacks BFF Jenna Shea. It seems the web-spat started after someone made a comment that Kimbella was a hoe, you know the usual. Kimbella responded with "Bitch dont tweet my page u fucking scum buckets!! Go find the next dirty dick! 5 mins is up boo!!". Well that set off the Twitter slaying that was to become Kimbella's 3rd dragging since landing a role on Love & Hip Hop. Jenna and her team of video vixens unleashed the dragon in the worst way and luckily there weren't any glasses to throw!

 

Oh but it gets real, check out the following tweets!

 

But then Kimbella follows with this^

Is that her way of hinting that maybe her and Juelz are tying the knot? Is she only saying that because she wants these other girls to get jealous. Kimbella, face it, like Emily you have to understand that your man is cheating. If you should decide to stick around this is what you're going to deal with time and time again. I wonder why so many models in the urban model game don't like Kimbella though? It can't all be about Juelz.

Beyoncé Gives Birth to Baby Girl!!!!

Beyoncé’s baby has arrived.

The 30-year-old singing sensation gave birth to a daughter via C-section Saturday night in New York City, citing multiple sources.

While there is some question about the baby's name — the Daily News claims it's Blue Ivy, while Entertainment Weekly says it's Ivy Blue — her new mama checked into the hospital Friday night under the moniker “Ingrid Jackson,” the Daily News reported. Jay-Z’s real name is Shawn Carter.

Beyoncé and her husband, Jay-Z, rented out the entire fourth floor of Lenox Hill Hospital on New York’s Upper East Side for $1.3 million for the big moment, according to the Daily News. The musical power couple’s baby girl came into the world some four months after Beyoncé famously framed her baby bump at the MTV Video Music Awards to reveal that she was expecting.

“Welcome to the world princess Carter! Love Aunty Rih,” Rihanna tweeted, while Russell Simmons offered his “congrats to my good friends Beyonce and Jay-Z.”